My epiphany is that you will never find a relationship that fits you perfectly—there will always be aspects that don’t align. But even if you did have a relationship that fit perfectly in every way, wouldn’t that be boring? What new discoveries or lessons would there be? The point of a relationship is to develop mutual connection and find workability. As long as you’ve discerned that there aren’t aspects that are blatantly unhealthy or counterproductive to your mission, and it’s overall workable with resonant aspects, then it serves its purpose. However, it’s still up to us to continually clarify the aspects that resonate and that we desire, and to continue seeking and developing those qualities within ourselves so they can be reflected in the people we meet.


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