And speaking with Jeffrey the other night I had a total new healing of Joe and realizing wow you know Joe was doing a little bit of a gaslighting behavior he was a little bit off and saying that he knows you can emphasize with people’s intentions like that is a little like a bit red flagish and you know he was not totally like I see his quirks I see his offs and it’s you know it’s nothing that I’m losing like it was weird and not good meant to be and I’ve got grown it simple as that with total love
