So I’ve been struggling with a limiting belief from Human design for quite a while now. I’m Desiring a certain connection with Brian that I am thinking I’m not getting, for example one on nuances of being. And then I’m blaming human design saying because we don’t share that gate we’re not having that connection.
I found this article on my blog and remembered that opposites are true freeze you from assumption.
The Twilight Zone: Opposites are True=Freedom from Assumption
So that I ask myself why do I think sharing the same gate immediately means that we connect on the subject?
What if actually me having the gate and him not having the gate allowed us to connect on the subject? Because he was curious to learn about it?
What if actually my resonance from a certain gate sparked his resonance from another gate and we could still relate with profound resonance from different Gates?
The point is I was assuming that because we don’t share same gate we don’t have that particular connection.
But what if because we don’t share that gate it provides opportunity for us to have That particular connection?
The point of my article is that when you realize both perspectives are true, you can have yourself free of any conditions.
Point being, I can have the full spectrum of connection with him free of whatever conditioned things on our chart show.
Likely those are propensities of energetic patterns that we have individually and together, but why is our connection not limited to any condition on the chart.
For example, gate 62 is all about the ability to communicate something complex really simply and straightforward, which then would allow me to resonate with that person even though I don’t have that particular gate. So to think that because that person has gate 62 and I don’t we won’t resonate makes no sense.
The point is we are resonating together shared gate or not. I had a completely misplaced assumption that was blocking me from the potential of connection that is possible with this person.
It’s so silly to admit, and yet it goes to show that anything is possible, we can have the full spectrum of connection we desire, free of any one condition, assumption, person place or thing.