I wanted to connect with Fred and go on a night hike. But when I came back they were playing the game. I could have accepted it walked away disappointed. But instead I persisted in asking that they pause the game and go for hike with me. And I made the effort to walk next to Fred and have a conversation. I got what I wanted because I took the initiative.
Reality does yield to me when I’m clear with what I want. To what extent can I be clear with what I want and act accordingly.
To what extent have I been a victim VS a chooser.
How much more a chooser can I be.
If and then.