I recognize the subtlety of staying on course to my destiny and it literally is up leveling my nose like I’ve learned to say no to the unhealthy relationships that were more obvious but now like even if there’s subtle things that I’m engaging that aren’t fully real for example Brian is not fully real it’s not a real connection it’s not a fully real connection don’t feel fully seen or heard I don’t fully feel the mutuality or the connection then I’m not going to put my energy in that direction